The question for today is "Why do things change with Titles" is it not the same relationship as before? Isn't this what you were working on for all those months? You got your prize, why are you not doing as much work as before? Speak on it Thursdays...
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Yea so let met drop my two cents: So I dont know man I think its just easier to not have that title of boyfriend. Like, when you become ya boyfriend now she is worrying about EVERY single detail as she should...but, you can not expect me to be able to handle that when you were never like this in the first place. I think I just like the hunt of trying to get the girl and when I get her its like ok...what now? lol! And I want to thank titletown queens for bringing me to this blogspot! chea!
ReplyDeleteI think that this is interesting...what some people believe to be the reason is that before there are titles, they do things based strictly off of how they feel for one another. There isn't the duty aspect of it like "well I'm her boyfriend so I should do xyz," it's the concept of I care about this girl and I just want to do this for her. That's what some people say.
ReplyDeleteAnother thing people say is that titles tie people down and make it seem super permanent and then things get confusing and boring--blah blah blah, and suddenly things are falling apart.
and then there's the ever present, once you make things "public" people start watching and people start talking and then your relationship is under the scrutiny of everyone else who isn't in the relationship.
I think that if you were doing certain things to get a girl or a guy, you need to maintain those things. That's like buying a car that can fly and then after you purchase it, it just stops...and then you wonder why you invested so much in something that isn't what you wanted. People have to realize that how things start is how they need to be.
My assumption is that the thought of a relationship just scares people! its like everything is good and then yall get together and they really show they a** then! hey, what can you say...we are all guilty!
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ReplyDeleteWell, I think guys just do not know how to handle the serious challenge of relationships. they like it when there is no title so they can holla at other girls and come back to there "main" and I am sure girls do it too! So I thinkt hats really why its so hard to give people a title...and when a guy wants you he goes through a lot to get you and then when you take that next step with them they back up! Men confuse me...I dont know ladies what you think?
ReplyDeleteI think it depends on what each person wants out of the relationship. There is a responsibility that is associated with every title. "Manager" "CEO" "Custodian." If the individual is not mature in the sense they are ready to accept full responsibility for their actions and the progress of the relationship then there should be no title given. A relationship is going going to go as far as the people in it agree. There has to be selflessness, and sacrifice, you are there to please the other person not yourself. If there is a disagreement with privacy, understand your privacy has been breached at this point unless, both agree this is merely a physical relationship and etc. Be truthful to yourself at the person you are with.
ReplyDeleteWell said LaRea, well said
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ReplyDeleteYea I think it has to do a lot with maturity on both parts. Women can go into Crazy mode once they become your boo or whatever it may be called this day. and vice versa now you watching how she treats certain homeboys and etc. etc. I mean I think when the relationship title comes in people just get scared of losing what they had before. Its weird I know...but its like how many other people were they chillin with before me...ya know? was she out there shoning before saying yea she would be my girlfriend and yes the same applies to me as well...but I dont know...relationships are just confusing...lol!
Now, I feel like guys just cant accept responsibility. I have had it happen to me. Me and this guy were talking for about six months and you know everything was good and we even had sex and nothing changed. Then we got together and now it was too much for me to be calling, too much for him to come through like he use to. And this did not happen right away. we were together or a good four months and then all this started happening. Like, why try to talk to me if you really didnt want a relationship. Man up and accept the responsibility that come with this nigga damn!!!
ReplyDeletei think titles bring exclusitivity which makes sum ppl feel kinda trapped so then they start trippin n actin up lol bt it shuldnt b tha deep...if ur talkin 2 sum1 n decide u wana wife tha then dun change a thing! who decided theres a difference...its jus a title
ReplyDeleteexclusivity makes sum ppl feel trapped so they startin actin out...bt who decided anythin has 2 change wen yu go from "talkin" to being a boyfriend/girlfriend...clearly ur 2getha becuz of how things were so dun trip its jus a title!
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