You ever tried to talk to someone and there was really no hope because she/he was still stuttin the ex? Trying to let this chick know what you are the one for her but she denies you because she hears it a million times? You ever tried to prove to him that you would not do him wrong but he thinks all women are alike?!?! Well speak on the situation...How did you handle it?!?!
What do you do in these situations?!
Did you keep pressing through or did you just give up?!?!
How do you show them that YOU are all they really need?
Drop your two cents on how you handled it and advice for the next person...
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Personally, I have failed at this situation. I had a chick where I tried to prove to her that I was not like her ex...but, secretly she wanted to back with him. She made it seem like she was over guys but she just was not over him. It sucked because I watched her get played over and over again. It really baffled me how she allowed herself to endure such foolishness. And I do not talk much with her but I am sure it is still going on if he is still with her. TRUST I hear about dude making moves all the time.
ReplyDeleteSigh...I just dont know sometimes...SMH
I can definitely feel where you are coming from. I have been that girl that is just fresh out of a relationship and just could not see through to the heart of any guy and I am still a bit hurt.
ReplyDeleteI am just trying to find myself as a woman and understand what I really need in my life. So I try not to deal with any guys so I do not lead them on or anything.
Honestly,
ReplyDeleteI been dat dude (no pun intended) that is thinking every girl is out to get me! I still think that every girl is out to get me so its like I will never be truly satisfied. I just been tried to many times. Where the people at Nemo?!?! lol! I need people to comment and give me advice too!
Well I am fine being that girl because dudes are semi trifling and dont know how to carry themselves. yes, if you have heard one line you have heard them all!
ReplyDeleteReal talk!
Honestly there is nothing that can be said or done to get these ppl to change their minds. The best you can do is truly be a friend and continue living your life for you.
ReplyDeleteWell sorry Ms. Fed Up all dudes are not trifling just the ones who get at you are...sorry to say it but its really true. You can not generalize everyone because of one guy.
ReplyDeleteAll it takes is to give someone a try. The least you can do. If you try him out and fail then cool, but a trial run is never a bad thing. And no one is saying get into something if your not ready. And if you are one of those chicks that will "NEVER BE READY" then you gotta re evaluate your life a bit dear!
I just can not believe that there is nothing that can be done. Everyone has gotten over some tough point in your life. And now you must let this one hold you down into the dirt.
ReplyDeleteI mean at least Prayer can help when all these things seemed flawed and the world has turned its back on you. I have gotten through a tough time with an ex boyfriend and I just had to realize that it was myself that was problem and then once I could accept that then I could move on!
At least Kay understand whats good in the hood!
ReplyDeleteI mean I have been that dude trying to show a girl you have got what it takes (sounds like a competition) to be her man despite her past. I had to let it go and keep moving. But, she knows what she lucked out on!
She beats herself up about it till this day and now she wants me and now I have moved on. Not to better things but someone who can appreciate me and not let there past sidetrack them for a lifetime!
I have been on both sides.....been the dude waiting for the chick to get over her ex. and have been the ex...who's girl is trying to get over him......talking from the perspective of the guy trying to get the chick...when a dude has his game layed down, its hard to break that attachment, cause he has her mind, he knows what buttons to push, to make her forget about you, he knows how to draw her in physically and emotionally...and that's a big advantage, cause in most cases if a chick is horny...she would much rather give it to someone she's been giving it to, rather then someone who's new..
ReplyDeletehmmm good point...who wants to start all over when they already gotten use to one thing...
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