So I met this young lady who said she proposed to her boyfriend (now, fiance)...And I really think thats somewhat unconventional but I like it...Now, I prolly would not want my girl to propose to me...I would prolly turn it around to propose back to her lol! But, do you know how much men put themselves out on the line to try to holla at chicks. Women fear rejection, but dudes get rejected on the regular. And if you a dude stroking ur ego saying "I dont eva get rejected" you lying bruh...there is always one we cant get! And thats just real! But, you know if women did get at us they would be desperate or if a woman wanted to have sex as much as a guy would she would be deemed as a animal. I mean its tough ya know. I wish girls would say how they felt more instead of assuming a dude is just gonna magically FIGURE YOU OUT! Thats not how it works ladies!! If we get rejected all the time then why dont yall take that leap as well. And stop smelling yourself thinking that you TOO GOOD and TOO MIGHTY to put yourself on the limb. But you prolly reading this saying I STILL AINT GON HOLLA, he betta holla at me...WELL, to you I say GOOD LUCK...but when you see someone else with your prize then you can not do much of anything. Instead of trying to get at her when she is taken let her know how much you want her without the stipulation. I dont know I guess this is a message for both sexes...stop waiting till some intoxicating moment arises to EXPRESS YOURSELF! Take what you want and if you get your feelings hurt a few time its all good...it only gets broken down so that when it builds up again and you DO find what your looking for it will be all understood. But, I feel too many people be sitting back and not taking charge!
AND ANOTHER THOUGHT...
Why the hell do people say "dont worry love will find you chill out?!" When the hell do you sit back for ANYTHING YOU WANT IN LIFE! That JOB, INTERNSHIP, TO BECOME A LAWYER, DOCTOR...You didnt sit back and let THAT come, did YOU?! So its the same that applies with getting what you want. Yes, pray for guidance and pray that it comes to you...but, I am sure the Lord wants you to work for your reward not just sit back and hope it gets to you via text message,,,well, I am done with my ranting!! lol! Im out!!
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Great Point on the "sit back and wait" philosophy. It seems that when you are looking, things fail to come around, yet when you stop looking, they are supposed to magically appear to us. I have always been the type to go after what I want, however, if I feel like I am doing most of the work, I pull back. Females are brought up with the "play hard to get" idea, to act as if you are not interested in order to keep a man interested. I enjoy the chase as much as I enjoy being chased, but I have also learned that it has to be balanced. If a guy who is supposedly interested in me does not act on his interest, eventually I get tired of waiting and move on. I believe in meeting halfway. Unfortunately, it seems as if a lot of guys on this campus are too afraid of rejection to do that. lol all i can say is...*SHAAAME!*
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ReplyDeleteI feel as if people shouldn't be in relationships period. How Love is seen now a days, is COMPLETELY different from how it was seen back then. Men now a days seem to only go after what they kno that they can handle, instead of fightin for a challenge.Its like there is no effort being puttin in @ all. But don't get it twisted, if we as women gave men a challenge worth fightin for, then may be they would appreciate having a lady and keepin her around. But we as men and women are 2 busy worrying about the things that don't matter, instead of putting work into what really does.
See I'm the type of girl that isn't afraid 2 wear her feelings on her shoulders. There is nothing more beautiful, then when 2 ppl are expressing how they truly feel to one another, and having no worries. The down side is not many ppl have the balls 2 walk up 2 someone [like I would do, when the time was right] who they really like and say:
"Hey, Ive been seeing U around.....&& everytime I do....U bring a smile 2 my face.... and a shiver 2 my soul. Its just something about U that got me. I just had to let U know." Then walk away. Now if that isn't bold && sexy then, I don't kno what is lol.The world would be such a more lovable place.I just feel like the world has changed, && not alot of folks really kno the meaning of Love && what it takes 2 be in Love, anymore[sigh].But It takes team work, to make the dream work.So ladies && fellas, we gotta step it up.
Dont know when you would respond to this...but here I go...Uh UH check it!
ReplyDeleteNow, Guys get rejected all the time and we still keep trying but there is only soooo much rejection a brother can take these days. Women play super hard to get and do not give chances to someone they dont THINK they see themselves with. Now, I am not perfect and I have turned down a few but that is only because they didnt fit my scheme of life or what I was trying to do or just them as a person didnt click well with my soul. They may felt like I was being green but, I know whats right for me and what isnt. And sometimes I do not know whats right for me...sue me!!!
Relationships are garbage these days...people just get together cause they been chillin in each others dorms for a few months. And while it would be sexy for you to do that you may be 1 out of the 100...so every OTHER female is gonna sit back and ASSUME that Love or Like is just gonna fall in their laps. And at UF what happens is that people or females and males all like the same people...So we are all after the same women instead of trying to find women in other territories or places...
But women are either super independant or you are WAY out of their league. So the judge you externally before internally and only take you for the superficial grain of salt when there is so much deeper to this cave than the realize...Guys are intimidated cause chicks make things hard then the women who are easy just give it all up and its like okay we will go to them cause all the "good ones" wanna act or wanna wait for there selection to come aboard. Which is fine...but, sometimes people dont give a remote chance. I will give you a chance...how much of a chance now is another question but thats all dependant on me...
But its really both parties faults! When we get older and by the team we realize all these stupid games we played in college is over its gonna be too late!