Why are women/men so prone to falling for Jerks?!?! Explain this theory about having a man/woman who dont give two rabbits foot about you or a relationship but you just cant seem to shake em out of your mind. Are we stupid? Or is it that we just want what we cant have? And would rather be treated like garbage before we find something better to suit us?!?
Nov 12, 2009
Speak on it Thursday...
Why are women/men so prone to falling for Jerks?!?! Explain this theory about having a man/woman who dont give two rabbits foot about you or a relationship but you just cant seem to shake em out of your mind. Are we stupid? Or is it that we just want what we cant have? And would rather be treated like garbage before we find something better to suit us?!?
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I just think that women like assholes...They like dudes that is not ready to chase them but will tell them clear it. Its a weird almost slick concept on keeping a woman. Guys are probably jerks intentionally now because they know what effect it will have. It sucks but the women I am a jerk to stay around longer than the women who I actually take serious!
ReplyDeleteYeah this is David pretty much most girls are just looking for the wrong things in a guy. Girls want a guy that's interesting (no problem with that) but interesting to girls is a guy that other girls want lol. Girls like guys that stand out and sometimes guys stand out for the wrong reasons such as for being rude, loud, etc whatever and those are the qualities you will get when u get in a relationship. Honestly there are a myriad of dudes out there that are in school got there head straight but are more focussed on their future than trying to stand out and be "interesting" and are therefore overlooked by woman. its up to you ladies to look harder and give a guy a chance based on his personality rather than how he stands out. dont get me wrong it goes both ways vise versa if the situation is flipped but i just see it more often in the case of dudes being over looked than chicks and then girls have the nerve to complain how their boyfriend did them wrong...lol duh what did you expect
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ReplyDeleteGenerally speaking: I think as humans we try 2 achieve perfection and always r competitive in what we do. So when someone or something comes arounds with a challenge that we cant defeat, we try as hard 2 figure out why??? Some ppl think its sexy when U can't have something that u really want.[i'm like that sometimes lol].Nobody likes rejection.So as humans we try to change it, even if that means looking stupid in the process. Many ppl just simply cant get over the fact that: 'this person doesn't care about me', && they keep comming back. I've witness so many of my friends [fellas && ladies] who repeatedly continue to fall victim to this. The constant lies, run arounds, && infidelity. I feel as if, if u can't admit to urself that this person isn't worth it && its time to leave, your simply showing your worth. Nobody can't ever truly respect U, if U don't know how to respect Urself.
I think its silly that us women have allowed this kind of treatment. I know I am of worth, I am a very strong, powerful and educated black woman and I know how I am supposed to be treated. I refuse to let some man or boy for that matter come at me in any type of way he chooses. This is really a sad and crying shame that my sisters are allowing men to completely demolish there character and bring them down into little bits and pieces of nothingness. Ladies, stand up for yourselves. Know what you want before you invest in it. Everything thats cute is not meant to be yours. You can have both worlds of course no one is saying settle for less. But just dont settle for the first cute guy walking because it doesnt automatically make him Mr. Right...He may be Mr. Right now but thats really as far as it goes.
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