Men (especially those at UF) are irrational creatures motivated by the wrong things. Referencing your previous blogs about "titletown queens" this is clearly evident. Thickness, pretty hair and upholding a petty/materialistic standard (such as maintaining a wardrobe that plummets them deeper into debt; when they can't do simple things like pay their rent or earn their OWN money/possessions), seems to be what men are looking for...but hey, she bad though!!
majority of them are taking...thats the only answer i can give you!!! but im pretty sure theres more out there, just randomly spread around...don't lose faith you'll miss right soon...i can feel in my bones..lo
No! to the first part of the question. I dont think they exist anymore. Because I feel that they just dont exist like its hard to explain. and I am going through so much with my ex and I see other girls going through it as well. I just think that it has to be universal that dudes suck!
The good men are fucking on a hidden behind the people and they portray they want to be. The good men become jerks because they feel like they have been done the dirtiest!! thats where they are!
I dunno I just think people keep focusing too much on outward shit and not looking at people for who they are on the inside.. For some reason I feel a lot of people been catching that fakeness and I don't know why.
I dunno I just think people try to act like something they aren't ..like some guys take on the "asshole " role or some girls take on the "oh I think I'm the shit" role..I don't think that good men/women are hidden..&& I think I make no sense..lol
Did everyone's mother send them to college to find a mate?
Prolly not..
Now, that question posed I'll address the blog topic. I do believe that there are still good men/women roaming the campus. Frankly speaking, I actually believe that 80% of the women on this campus and 63.6% of the men on this campus have "good so-and-so" potential either visible or hidden deep within them.
"But wtf? We don't see these qualities at all"
You ask that and I'll answer. I sincerely believe no one is looking for a husband or a wife in college. These are the (at least) 4 years before we hit the oh-so-scary real world. It is these years where the majority of our "I love college" stories will come from...where we can do outlandish, inhumane, and downright assholeish things to the opposite sex...and GET AWAY WITH IT. Dudes dogging girls out? Surrounded by beautiful girls in college, you can't judge us for shoneing here and there. Girls smashin homies? Cant judge it too hard...
What I'm saying is that there are plenty of good men and women within this microcosm of the world known as UF, but they choose to put that persona aside for their time here and just have fun. Can you fault people for that?
Now...that said...some people take longer than others to shed that "have fun" persona once they leave college. Often times they need a helping hand, but hey...old habits die hard.
You gotta at least find the person interesting. A girl could be as nice as can be and take care of me, but if she cannot hold my attention it does not matter.
That said, good men and women are all around. A lot of them stay away from normal "Black" events, and a lot of them aren't looking. With the last relationship I went through I really don't want to go through that shit again. Searching within "the church" these days doesn't really give you better odds, you still find bad boyfriends/girlfriends there. Bottom line is, you gotta be ready yourself to have someone involved in your life, know what you want, and be diligent and smart in your search. Also, Stay away from the "beaten path" i.e. the usual ways/places to find someone.
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The problem is too many BOYS want these SHONES! Point BLANK PERIOD!
ReplyDeleteMen (especially those at UF) are irrational creatures motivated by the wrong things. Referencing your previous blogs about "titletown queens" this is clearly evident. Thickness, pretty hair and upholding a petty/materialistic standard (such as maintaining a wardrobe that plummets them deeper into debt; when they can't do simple things like pay their rent or earn their OWN money/possessions), seems to be what men are looking for...but hey, she bad though!!
ReplyDeletemajority of them are taking...thats the only answer i can give you!!! but im pretty sure theres more out there, just randomly spread around...don't lose faith you'll miss right soon...i can feel in my bones..lo
ReplyDeleteI feel like its the womens fault!! PERIOD!
ReplyDeleteyall wine and complain toooo much about what they dont have and be too busy chasin someone else boyfriends!
Women are caniving looking for the best interest in themselves. What dudes can get them, do for them, buy for them etc. etc.
it sucks but its the truth! And if we dont do it its like eff us!
No! to the first part of the question. I dont think they exist anymore. Because I feel that they just dont exist like its hard to explain. and I am going through so much with my ex and I see other girls going through it as well. I just think that it has to be universal that dudes suck!
ReplyDeleteThe good men are fucking on a hidden behind the people and they portray they want to be. The good men become jerks because they feel like they have been done the dirtiest!! thats where they are!
I dunno I just think people keep focusing too much on outward shit and not looking at people for who they are on the inside.. For some reason I feel a lot of people been catching that fakeness and I don't know why.
ReplyDeleteI dunno I just think people try to act like something they aren't ..like some guys take on the "asshole " role or some girls take on the "oh I think I'm the shit" role..I don't think that good men/women are hidden..&& I think I make no sense..lol
Too many boys I agree!!
ReplyDeleteOkay...I'm about to pose a question...
ReplyDeleteDid everyone's mother send them to college to find a mate?
Prolly not..
Now, that question posed I'll address the blog topic. I do believe that there are still good men/women roaming the campus. Frankly speaking, I actually believe that 80% of the women on this campus and 63.6% of the men on this campus have "good so-and-so" potential either visible or hidden deep within them.
"But wtf? We don't see these qualities at all"
You ask that and I'll answer. I sincerely believe no one is looking for a husband or a wife in college. These are the (at least) 4 years before we hit the oh-so-scary real world. It is these years where the majority of our "I love college" stories will come from...where we can do outlandish, inhumane, and downright assholeish things to the opposite sex...and GET AWAY WITH IT. Dudes dogging girls out? Surrounded by beautiful girls in college, you can't judge us for shoneing here and there. Girls smashin homies? Cant judge it too hard...
What I'm saying is that there are plenty of good men and women within this microcosm of the world known as UF, but they choose to put that persona aside for their time here and just have fun. Can you fault people for that?
Now...that said...some people take longer than others to shed that "have fun" persona once they leave college. Often times they need a helping hand, but hey...old habits die hard.
You gotta at least find the person interesting. A girl could be as nice as can be and take care of me, but if she cannot hold my attention it does not matter.
ReplyDeleteThat said, good men and women are all around. A lot of them stay away from normal "Black" events, and a lot of them aren't looking. With the last relationship I went through I really don't want to go through that shit again. Searching within "the church" these days doesn't really give you better odds, you still find bad boyfriends/girlfriends there. Bottom line is, you gotta be ready yourself to have someone involved in your life, know what you want, and be diligent and smart in your search. Also, Stay away from the "beaten path" i.e. the usual ways/places to find someone.
KNOWLEDGE! lol
BlackNSwole (pause) coming with some truthiness.
ReplyDeleteYo women are all in hersheys cookies and cream! lol! thats where they are!
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