YES, THIS IS LONG, ITS A MINI WRAP UP OF MY YEAR...BUT READ IT IS QUITE INSIGHTFUL...
Its been quite the amazing year or what not...working with the Physical therapy clinic really showed my profession heads on and has showed me and made me even more passionate to want to become a Physical therapist even more. It even inspired me to push forward through another random career in massage therapy. I already wanted to do it but after working there it was just official. So this year I been on my massage therapy grind or what not or at least this fall anyways. Which for some reason is all I remember...
How did the whole dating thing go this semester??!?!?! Great and I encourage everyone (especially the fellas) to go and try to do something new with these women man. Now a days you gotta show what separates you from the rest of these lames. And the beauty of it all is that you can get to know if this woman if for you or not for you. "Chilling" is cool but how far will get that you other than a few good moments and then some real awkward situations there after. It was different and I had to let women know like "Im not trying to be your man, I just want to know who you are and hey if we go out on more dates cool if not then its all good." How much money did I spend?!?! UH...not much at all actually yea a few movie trips and some ice cream outings nothing serious. I created some moments that were free i.e the wal-mart game or I-Hop at the house or whatever other random foolishness I could think of. If you have any questions about what I did specifically or you want some tips I can put you up on game. Actually your prolly not gonna ask me so let me give you a few things...
And yea these are simple things and you might have done bigger and better and I commend you but those were just a few things to just get the juices flowing. And of course you can switch up and change up these things to fit the person cause everyone may not like that and what I learned the most that so many females are used to TRASH so doing anything different is gonna make you seem like your lame. But do not get discouraged my latest motto "Don't half your game because of the last person being undeserving." And if you run into a scenario where they are just lame then as Jay-Z kindly stated "On to the next one." Step your game up and try to bring others with you or find others who can handle this lifestyle. Dating is a lost art form and I tried to encourage a few people to bring it back as well. If you know what you are with before you get with them when you give yourself a "title" things will not have to be complicated or confusing. I have learned from my past relationships that If I probably would have gotten to know them I might have appreciated them more or wouldn't have even wasted the time.
I kinda slowed down on the club game as well. It got boring and lack luster. I mean I still went out when the party seem interesting enough or if I got drugged out of my dorm room. But for the most part I stayed to the crib and just enjoyed the company of me and the macbook or hung out with people in small groups. Priceless moments are those mini ones with your friends! But I mean if you do want to keep clubbing by all means do so...but step your game up "No bronzing" if you do not know what that is look it up in the labels to the right and read about it. Come clean and fresh and not scrubbing and looking busted! Step your game up and everything arounds you does the same. If you half ass then do not expect much to be in your favor ya dig! But yea, it might have been me just getting older ya know. Someone asking me in the week of me graduating "ARE YOU DOING IT ALL THIS WEEK?" and I was like "nah, I been doing it since my freshman year so I do not need to make it all happen in the week before I leave." Was not being arrogant just being real.
What will I be doing now...well, I start massage therapy school in January in the ville. So expect to still hear me promoting massages via facebook/twitter and my school will be on the other side of the world so dont worry you will not see me unless your a client. Another big change in my life...No more campus life?!?!? AHHHH! Yea, I know I been on campus 4+ years its gonna be hard being off but I will be A-Ok! After that then all my endeavors will go towards going to Physical therapy school (so after massage school I look forward to Post back classes+GRE studying). So yea, UF may see me occasionally because I still have a lot of reasons to come back and visit of course...but do not down play that because I am here "Oh, then we will see you or we will get to hang no worries" FALSE...cause if you did not do it with the 1,2,3,4 years of knowing me your not going to just MAGICALLY do it now. I will pull my weight but others prolly wont I have learned that you cant expect everyone to be where you are.
If you guys really wanna support me in my massage endeavors just contact me we can talk about everything, times and attire (you do not have to be in the nude thats just what you see on TV or in the Movies and trust I want to make money so I handle every client respectfully and very professionally...if I didn't trust me you would have heard about me already how these UF streets talk! but thats another blogspot topic)
What are my New Years Resolution?!?!?: Get muscles and Waves no specific order at hand and revamp my wardrobe. All things to get fresh and step into the grown man world ya dig! Well, the blog game is coming back this year FYI and this wont be a resolution that falls off! And Happy New years Blogger readers, facebookers, twitter boppers its been real like hollyfield! (if thats how you spell it) Oh yea dont send me no MASS MESSAGES!!! You have been warned! Catch me via n e thing else to find me....twitter, hi five (jk), skype: nemodafishman, facebook! Chea!
In 2010 CHANGE UP EVERYTHING FOR THE BETTER!! PRAY MORE AS WELL....I SAY IT BECAUSE I NEED TO PRACTICE IT AS WELL!
I love the part about NO Bronzin..couldn't be more real (I read the post about it too)
ReplyDeleteSo we need to come up w/ term for girls who wear flip flops to the club? can u help me out w/ that one?
i dont kno what u would call it I guess scrubbin or slidin! lol! that seems perfect..she is actually "slidin" in the club are u serious?!?! there ya go!
ReplyDeleteFOOLISH NEMO!
ReplyDeleteI do hope that ur yr goes successfully tho! You are a great kid so I am sure everything will happen in ur favor!
-Tracy
yay for ice cream dates :-)
ReplyDeleteand more praying in 2010!