Whats wrong with believing in Fairy Tales?

"I'm a weird girl who believes in fairytales and that's fine because the normal girls learn to settle with their nightmares" - Tisha

Now, I have had many hours of debates and arguments about fairy tales and I am a hopeless romantic and a gangsta so trust its very hard for me some times to deal in this modern day and age when people dont feel like these things we read about can come true. Now, after reading this quote last night from my homegirl I just got to thinking like dang...(dramatic pause for five seconds)she's right. Now, I am not saying you should wait for a skinny indian kid to ride in on a magical carpet or nothing like that but, you CASN want something a certain way how you want it. I mean, (something I say often) whats wrong with wanting love how YOU want it? Whats wrong with hoping for someone to come in your life the way you think they should come? Yes, we cant control these things and we shouldnt "expect" it and sometimes we should just let it come and not worry about...but, theres nothing wrong with just hoping that it comes how WE may imagine it...ya know...And slickly, are we all NOT trapped in some fairy tale though?

Whether its a man thinking he gon' end up being the reason this woman reaches her "first" orgasm after 21 years AND after she has told him shes never gotten it, the man now goes into fairy tale mode and feels like the ultimate warrior to bring this new revelation of an orgasm into this womans life. Or Another fairy tale that men have or hope for is to hit a BAD BROAD, LIGHT SKINNED/SMOOTH SILKY CHOCOLATE, THAT COOKS, CLEANS, TAKES CARE OF THE FAMILY, GIVE DAT BOMB HEAD AND SEX, STAY FIT IN THE GYM, LONG HAIR AND SHE AINT TRYING TO GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP...(OOHHHHHHHHH, HE TOOK IT TO THE MAX, TJ)(YES THE CAPS NOOGA)...

Anywho, and yea don't get it twisted ladies yall are no better. For some women they will have this fairy tale in their minds (which I blame on rappers like LL COOL J) that some man is gonna sneak in their home and lace the house of red roses just to say sorry or scoop her up and take her to paris to propose to her and all this other jazz. And yes, women just like men fantasize as well... Usually its over these tyrese ahh, trey songz sanging, Shemar Moore ahh ninjas. And they want a TALL, DARK, SKRRRONNNGG man to carry them and knock the brakes off em and then want him to lay up under when shes done and watch the stars and he cradles her right cheek as the moon shines on the silhouette of her body and then their eyes meet and they are locked in like a heat seeking missile, they kiss and he says I LOVE YOU. Hmmmm SOUND GOOD DONT IT?!?!

Well, hey, theres nothing wrong with that ya know. But as the quote says...so many women end up (AND MEN) having to settle for their nightmares. Having to deal with trash. Literally. And yes some people really only deserve that title. Lord bless them. But, yes, Trash, Garbage, Waste. Some people are locked in forever and ever just because "Momma kept asking why I didnt bring a man home so I finally brought one home that she liked." or "Yeah, man she all I got so I aint got no choice I might as well keep her." And granted these quotes maybe dramatization but I am positive that in some form these things actually DO OCCUR.

All in all, let me wrap this up B, cause I could go on for LIGHT YEARS. *Obama Voice* There is. nothing wrong. (with a little bump-n-grind) with wanting, something how YOU want it *end obama voice.* I mean you have to live with it forever and ever, till death bla bla amen so you might as well start off with it the way ya like. But, it does not mean that because the young man doesn't come swinging in on a tree vine or drawn in by a horse drawn carriage that hes not your prince. And just because she may not have breast, thighs, hips and all that jazz. It does not mean that she still cant be that queen that deserves to be next to you sharing your last name and checking account (maaayybeee). But I mean, (I said it again) set dreams and shoot for the stars, but dont go crazy. Don't just knock things because it does not happen like it did in the notebook or whatever. Cause honestly, in regards to the women, if a man truly loves you and emphasis on truly. He will do absolutely everything and anything like in all the movies you see, books you read and all that there. Now, it may be a watered down version due to some money issues and such (insert laughter) but he will do what he can with what he has. And to the fellas, we gotta kill that 80/20 man. Sometimes the woman of our dreams is the woman that we have neglected or looked through, cause we get caught up with a young lady who may be willing to give it up quicker and you don't want to work as hard to get that other chick...And trust I have been there (I done that: guess that song)and I have made those mistakes as well. And granted you need to make them, you need to make them to realize what you don't want...but, Don't end up living out your nightmares at the end of it all. And granted you gotta go through the nightmares in order to see the fairy tale story at the end...But...Idk...you get what Im saying tho...

Well, I digress...Over and Out.

Also, after this I'm done promise...when you see: #PFMW via social networks...it means I have stopped and taken the time to "Pray for my Wife" its something new that I am doing. And feel free to stop and Pray for your husband as well. Just drop a simple pound sign and a PFMH. I pray for their health, well being, to be happy and son and so forth. And my new theory is: PRAY TO GET HER, PRAY TO KEEP HER. It isn't done NEARLY as much as it should be. But yea, ummm...Im out! FOOLIES

Ralph Marston - Excuses

Don't waste time on excuses. Just get it done. - ralph marston

Citizen Cope - A bullet and a Target

So this song came on this morning and I just want to say its always been a slick dope favorite. Did not really knew who sang it but I knew the song none the less. So yea, Enjoy the acoustics sounds by Citizen Cope.

Hari Kari

Sooo...I wanna thank Chris Brown because if he never made the reference to "Hari Kari" in his song "Look at me Now" (OH) because then I would not have looked up what the hell a hari kari was....SO...I wanna thank answers.com who gave me this info. But according to @MrSneakaHead its a phrase used in the MANGAS. But yea...thanks CBreezy!

Hari kari, also known as sepuku, is an ancient form of ritual suicide that defeated samurai, or those whose shame was 'too unbearable' would use to restore their honor in death. In sepuku, one would take a wakizashi (short sword) and dissembowel oneself. The less noise you made while doing this, the braver you were and therefore the more honorable, however this did not last long as not long after you had begun, a close friend, comrade, or enemy would put you out of your misery by cleaving your head from your shoulders in one swift blow of the katana (another japanese sword). Even though in modern times the prospect of decapitating one of your friends or relatives sounds completely against normal 'friendly' behavior, being asked to asist your friend or enemies' escape from shame was considered a great honor, as was using this as a tool to escape. This is why the in the imperialistic wars that followed japan's modernisation post Admiral Perry's opening of it in 1853 to the west, the Japanese had no concept of the POW, as they believed that a combatant should either fight to the last breath, or if captured, die 'honorably' in ritual suicide, known as hari kari or sepuku. A good example of this ritual can be found in Tom Cruise's movie "the last samurai"

Stevie Wonder X Mom's Birthday X Wale

So how do the three things match up you say...

So this morning while my roommate @greg1906 was doing his casual morning yelling and singing he reminded me of this amazing song by stevie wonder that my band use to play! Like this song use to go in!!!! I MEAN, IN!!!! LIKE DEEP PENETRATION LOL! Well, you feel me! And you might have heard this sample in a Wale track off of "More About Nothing." But yea this is my song for the morning.

Stevie just had a raw hardcore talent man. Just his music composition was sickness. Pure genius at times. And yes, the song I believe was sampled by Tamie Terrell so I know stevie did not just come up with it on his own lol. But I dont know if singers even have this kind of potential anymore. Maybe, I am wrong. Or maybe because beats are so catchy and so overdone that the actual vocalist gets lost behind the kicks and snares. Music does not compliment the artist anymore. Its like they are two different sections the beat and then the artist. And you can do with either one or the other because people will not listen to your song for too long these days. Jay Z said it best "they dont listen to music they just skim through it." We all are guilty but you get me.

But anywho, song of the morning!! Enjoy!! Oh...(JACKIE CHAN'S UNCLE VOICE): ONE MORE THING!

Also, it is my moms birthday! so this song is perfect for the day!

SPEECH! SPEECH!

(CLEARS THROAT)

Mom, I love you with all my heart and soul. And I promise, I promise, I promise I will be that amazing husband you raised me to be. I just had an epiphany a few days ago about trying to better myself as a black man and then I remembered that your birthday was coming up. It might have been you reaching me in some strange way. Im not perfect by any means so I have slipped up and I have done some people wrong and have had some wrong done to me but its not going to deter me or stop me from giving my all to whoever that lucky woman will be. I was just thinking about how if you were around I would be spending my whole paycheck on you just to keep you on ya HIGH MAINTENANCE status lol! I was saying how you would be the only woman I would do that for, in like LIFE! Maybe my wife if she acting right lol! jk! But yea have a great day mama! I miss you and always keep you close! You light up my life even in the darkest hour.

Thank you for always giving your all even when you had nothing. I guess, I get that from you. Always trying to do it all for people even though I have nothing at all. Well let me stop writing cause now the tears are flowing haha lol! Tears of joy tho! No worries! Last thing...I remember you use to call me your "bush bush" and I thought it was the lamest thing ever but I really do miss it! Shucks (kicks rocks with hands in pockets) well, now Im out!



Holla Young WORLD! Oh yea, Imma bless yall with that Wale joint as well!



Well do you see how that all segway'd into each other lol!

Black Parents White Baby

So umm...I do not know how I feel about this. Somebody full of sh** and it aint the baby!! lmao!!! This was too funny!! too funny!

#ShawtbusShawty

Who's World is This...

With economic desparity, the oil spill, foolishness with the NAACP and the tea party I had to ask myself "Who's World is This?" I was looking for the Nas version which is called the "World is Yours" but I typed in the wrong thing and found this J. Cole track. But its all good. I will post both! For my facebookers that will see this post you wont see the videos so here ya go click the link and be redirected like traffic ya dig.

Click link: Watch Videos

Transitions: Stepping into Greatness

So as you may have noticed the blogspot has switched up and the rap name has switched up as well...Well, I mean "nemo" really isnt going anywhere but I am just trying to get the world to take me a tad bit more serious ya know?!? I wont like ignore someone though if they be like "what up nemo?!?" Cause thats apart of me and I made it you know so I am not gonna take it from me if that make sense. But, it is a big college thing and there is actually already an artist named nemo so why go through the dilemma of battling for the spot of it and just create an even more and improved me if that make sense. But yea man still the same nemo and I am not gonna change the facebook name...but as far as this artist stuff "ATG" is your man for now until someone tells me the name is taken and I am in danger of being sued lol!

So Alexander The Great is here for now and im promoting the "Think Greatness" movement ya know! I mean its an easier blogspot name to remember as well as oppose to allaboutthefishman lol! You might get confused with the extra T's in that lol! But yea my people doing some new stuff...looking into getting a manager, looking into finding a producer for my work (So I can get on original beats), working on a press kit...bla bla bla!

In the midst of all that I am finishing massage therapy school July 9th and take my boards and get on this official License game ya dig! Then going to school to take a few classes before applying to Physical Therapy programs somewhere in this big wide world! So thats really my hobbies making school stuff happen and making music happen! But I will keep you guys posted as to what happens next!! But be on the lookout for the mixtape!! You can click that link to check out the previous post about the mixtape! Peace out bloggeronis! Im off like a prom dress!

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8th Deadly Sin: Pillow Talk

I start off with a quote from our very own Drake Drizzy....

"and if you pillow talkin with the women screwing you, just know she gon tell another ninja when she through with u"

With that said and while I listen to Shad's - Rose Garden (HOW APPROPRIATE) We all know that after "relations" experience where IT WAS JUST SOOOOOOO GOOD...That you feel the need to talk about every single thing that should not be talked about cause you just feel this A-Maze-ing connection (with a woman you have only met once of course). I mean a lot of us are guilty for it. Its usually a great time to get a male talking about something when he usually does not wanna talk about anything regarding secrets, emotions and all that other raa raa. And both sexes are guilty of it...I mean it does make sense to talk and bond after sex...right??!?! You did just share an experience where you became one with the female anatomy and you are not just trying to get another tick and a cross off on your tally marker for women you have convinced to have "relations" with you. (I mean think about does he not have to convince you at some point? I mean if you have upstanding...you know what I wont go into that at all.)

I mean hey, its crazy because the worst part is when you pillow talk that one night and your no longer with that person any more and they are BETTY CROCKERING it up with someone else the female gum flappers just decide to go and spitting off all your dirt and info to the next dude she's laying up with! I mean men do it to but I do not think its nearly as much as woman but we are guilty of it as well. Its a very dangerous thing ya know cause now another dude has a 1 UP like a mushroom on you and then he only clowns you in his own respective group.

But I wont go into too much more detail about it just know its a deadly sin believe it or not its just not highlighted in the biblical aspects of life. But, I am sure a few apostles and disciples and kings and queens did some pillow talking and pretty much just gave away like entrances to castle grounds and let others know where hidden treasures were and then got it stolen a few weeks later and wondered "How did this all happen?!?!" I digress...But that Drizzy uote inspired the topic...

WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?!??!?! I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW, LIKE REALLY I WOULD!!

Step Your Kick Game Up

Unless your kicks can do this then your kicks cant really do much!! Live shooting of this nike beatbox shoemaking ordeal done inTokyo! Here is the aftermath, Pretty dope! I did see a youtube comment that was like "Nice room for a sweat shop" although it was mean it was pretty funny! Enjoy the video! Shouts out to da homie Vince for getting me the video preciate it kid!

MY SHOOOOEEEE!!

Oh yea, these shoes dont make music when you twist or bend them! FYI!

My Chick Bad - Glee Version

Found this video and thought it was pretty hilarious so I had to put it in the blogspot.com if you wanna find out more about this group you can go to Candyslicecomedy.com

How to be a Hater

So before you go into reading this blogspot posts go ahead and grab you some hater blockers, and play any song in regards to hating that you can possibly find!! I just went ahead and cued and entirely playlist of a bunch of songs in regards to ninjas hating on someone...alright...now getting into things...

So this blogspot is to being used to teach you how to become the best and greatest hater you possibly can become...No ones happiness and good fortune is safe!! Some of you guys may already have a few years of experience so just feel free to chime in on how we can all become better HATERS

Now, there are only 2 rules to being a great hater because they encompass soooo much and you can always switch up how you use these tools in regards to your environment, location, etc!

Rule #1
Bring Em Down

Simple!! Anytime anyone comes in your proximity with some type of positivity just go ahead and say something off the wall and make sure that there life is now in a state of bitterness and hurt!

Example of two students discussing their test grades back after a big exam: ACTION!!

Girl 1: yea, I studied for the past two, three weeks and really put in the time and made sure I was prepared for this exam and got a B+

girl2: a B+ thats it?!?! I got an A! man, I guess thats what happens when you TRY to study but just are not as good as, well, ME! But maybe next time though I heard everyone got at least a B so being that I got an A must mean im the smartest!

Saw how that worked!?! Now, you can practice as much as you need to and make sure you become as effective and a hurtful as possible!

But it does not just stop there?!?! It can be done via facebook, twitter, text, skype and all that as well! if you see someones status that says

Nemo: "Man, today has been so great, I got into Med School and have a great girlfriend who loves and cares about me" (NOT A TRUE STORY, JUST AN EXAMPLE LOL)

You can do a few things you can comment on their status and make it seem like a joke or you can send em a text...hold on let me get you an example for the response to that message...

You can say something simple like "SO!" or you can say "Well, did all that cheating you did in biochem class and looking at my notes get you that far or did you BLOW THE TOP OFF EVERYONE ON THE BOARD TO GRANT YOU A WAY IN!"

Now thats some good stuff...or you can text these same responses as well and feel free to improv as much as possible and throw in a few lies that are not true as well! Make it good!

Rule #2
do the OJ Simpson

Caucasian Women do not worry, this is more so just an analogy of how to be a good hater by being a backstabbing, two face individual kinda a person around your friends and the people around you!

You have to be that kinda person that talks about someone when their around but when they do come in your face you have to become overly friendly and just make the person you were talking about feel like you are the closest friend they have. Make it seem like your really caring, a listener, and really wanna see the best for them and then when they least expect TELL EVERYONE WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN TELLING YOU!

Trust, you will elevate your level of hating to a new height with this one!

I mean and dont stop at just one or two friends try to backstab your whole crew, mom, dad, lost cousin, a stranger or anyone that just seems to be doing extremely well. Do you see an Mom and Pop Store getting an extreme amount of business this week? Just whisper to a few people that they just found rats and roaches during inspection to someone who might have been walking in the door...Word will spread and eventually they will shut the place down! but when you see the owner you just say something like "man, I dont know how this happened, I tell all my friends about this place!"

Is hating hard you ask?!? NOOO WAAYYY, its really simple...It might be so simple that a caveman might rather do a organic chemistry equation than even attempt to do something so ridiculously simple!

But yea I digress, NOW GO OUT AND BE GREAT HATERS!!!

D.O.J: Death of Jorts

What up blogworld its been a little minute but im back with the jump off...These next few blog posts below this one are entertaining, informative and all that other razzle dazzle so check out the others below: Spike Lee Joint, Why Lie and What is a Chicken Nugget!! Enjoy!

so, I was at work the other day and had a very interesting and entertaining convo about JORTS...

What are Jorts you may ask?!?!? These are Jorts




Gasp at the horror!

Jorts are Jean shorts the most forbidden item of clothing for men over the age of high school! Now, the only other stipulation is that you can wear shorts your first semester at any University or pubic college for the first 6 WEEKS of your college career. After that Six week period you are no longer able to wear JORTS!!

Who made up these rules you ask?!?! Well of course I got all this stuff from The NAJSW (The National Association of Jean Shorts Wearers) this site is so official that you cant even look them up. #POW

But yes, this conversation was with me and one of the Titletown Queens and a few other friends and she noted how terribly horrible it was to actually see grown men in shorts! She had the look of disgust on her face as she said it! So ladies and gentlemen there you have it D.O.J!!!

MOMENT OF SILENCE (CUE HORNS) LA LA LA LA, HEY HEY HEY, GOOD BYE!!

A Spike Lee Joint

Is this dude not in your top ten of amazing black directors/writer/producers!!! I mean its SPIKE LEE, Mr Do the Right thing, Da Best Knicks Fan eva!! (Well, until he did the movie about Kobe which might have questioned his loyalty but whatever!)....None the Less the man is nothing shorter than great (no pun intended). And there are some other people who be holding it down but I wont mention them here because this is a Spike Lee Joint, ya feel me!

Whats your favorite Spike Lee Joint??!?!

Is it Malcom X

He Got the Game...

School Daze

Crooklyn

Mo Better Blues

Cant forget Get on the Bus

Bamboozled

But I really dont need to state ne more classics from this dude! and I really do not see another that has that many hits! I mean you got others on the come up...but they gonna have to keep on coming to get on Spikes level...Heres a quick snippet of his MJ commercial he did a while back which was pretty dope!

Whats a Chicken Nugget?!?!

Before you be like "what the hell is this im not reading this...please just sit down and read the entire thing it is very beneficial by the end of the post #TRUST"

Are chicken nuggets reaaally chicken nuggets?!?!? I mean they say they are and they may be breaded but they dont taste like chicken! I mean what can you say about these companies that market "chicken nuggets" maybe they should just call it the "Golden Brown Nugget' or just the "Dikembe Mutombo" (get it) ahh n e ways...I just always wondered what the hell is in that stuff and just FAST FOOD while I love it I am sure its up there with a few big killers (cigs, car accidents, lack of sex?!?! lol! well, I would assume that would kill you) and these commercials are another story to be unraveled but we wont begin to start there!

According to DietRiot.com the ingredients for the Chicken Nuggets are as follows

Chicken, water, salt, modified corn starch, sodium phosphates, chicken broth powder (chicken broth, salt, and natural flavoring (chicken source)), seasoning (vegetable oil, extracts of rosemary, mono, di- and triglycerides, lecithin). Battered and breaded with water, enriched bleached wheat flour (niacin, iron, thiamine mononitrate, riboflavin, folic acid), yellow corn flour, bleached wheat flour, modified corn starch, salt, leavening (baking soda, sodium acid pyrophosphate, sodium aluminum phosphate, monocalcium phosphate, calcium lactate), spices, wheat starch, dried whey, corn starch. Batter set in vegetable shortening. Cooked in partially hydrogenated vegetable oils, (may contain partially hydrogenated soybean oil and/or partially hydrogenated corn oil and/or partially hydrogenated canola oil and/or cottonseed oil and/or sunflower oil and/or corn oil). TBHQ and citric acid added to help preserve freshness. Dimethylpolysiloxane added as an anti-foaming agent.

Can you say WTF???!!? Look man, enjoy yo next ten piece or twenty piece lmao! I know I will especially when I taste that "MONOCALCIUM PHOSPHATE" HMMMM!!

I mean, do your fast food thing it is convenient but for the 2010 work on ya cooking game and changing up the eating habits a bit...Not even just for health purposes, but for your pockets, man these fast food places will break ya wallet into smitherines if you let em! So yea, think about what you eat before you eat it (#doubleentendre), hit up your gym if you have to or even go outside and PLAY, walk to campus if your only 10 min away, Ride ya bike instead of catching the bus, go walking your dog around the complex, if you have a partner motivate them to work out with you and let em know that the benefits that night will be AMAZING, work out with a close friend and you guys can motivate each other, make goals for yourself and rewards (once a week if I work out like I am supposed to I can have some ice cream) and please not that you do not have to stop eating every single meal you love, just cut it down into smaller portions and another tool that we usually forget that is a great workout is DANCING...even if you can not dance or not...just turn on some music and DANCE YOUR HEART OUT! The moral of the story is Just stay active...All you need is a good 20-30 min about 3-5 times a week! Its only a challenge if you let it be one!!

The word on the health streets is if you dont USE IT, YOU LOSE IT...

Why Lie?!?!

Do you have a friend, homie, accomplice or just know someone who just be FLAT OUT LYING!! Aint got no reason to be lying but just be LYING! Come on think about it! We all got a homeboy who swear he be hittin some chick, but then you actually run into her and she starts talking and you can tell from how she's talking that ya homeboy really never smashed at all!

Or how about that infamous chick who really tries to tell her girls she's with SPIKES, JAMES, TEBOW even lmao! Be posted up at Plasma or Rehab or whatever its called now trying to look all cute praying one of these celebrities (except Tebow of course) walks up in the club and maybe if she pokes her behind out enough he will trip over her and apologize!!

Why Lie??!?!?

You kno that dude who swear he be passing the test few months later you dont see him at UF no more! I mean I feel you homeboy but u really dont gotta lie ya know...

Like, who are these people putting on a show for because I just dont get it! Or another infamous of infamous lies "yea, I dont be messin with nobody at UF, or I be CHILLIN doin me or any of the Usual lies that really wont come to my head rite now!

Am I calling n e one out!!?!?!? Nah, just speaking in general these LIARDS (FOR MY JA FOLK) be chillin everywhere...When you come to college you really dont have to put on a FRONT for nobody! They lie on facebook, they lie on twitter, they lie via text message, skype status and all that! lol!!

Ahh well! Keep on Lying...you ogn fool someone eventually if you havent already...and hey on the flip side you may not be lying at all and Im just a smooth hater...

FISH FOOD FOR THOUGHT...

Maybe its not fair I assume...but we do it anyway...Think about it...

Cutty Buddy: Five Golden Rules

"feel free to play this song as much as you need to in order to create mood for this post"

A cutty buddy as defined by the urban dictionary is someone who is on your roster who is strictly for sexual relations or booty calls. There are no other ties in that relationship other than the "cut up" you receive from that person.

Rules of Cutty Buddies...

1) As the definition says you have to understand that this person is used for "strictly" sexual relations. Which means that there shall be no texting, fb messaging/chatting, tweeting, instant messaging, phone calls or voice mails left or any contact made with the individual until booty call hours (After 11:35 pm) have been set in motion.

2) After sexual relations occur one must gather belongings and make their way towards leaving the premises. If you are the driver then you should put on your belongings and leave within five minutes after both partners have decided to have ended the sexual encounter. If you are the person picked up you need to be getting taking home by the driver ten minutes after sexual encounter is over.

3) No matter how good the encounter has been YOU CAN NOT kiss your partner on the lips and it is prohibited that one does not spend the night. Spending the night can cause an increase in emotional passion and a sense of like and furthering of relationships outside sexual encounters. The presence of ones warmth for longer than four hours can cause the estrogen level of the female to rise to a level above unattainable.

4) In public one should be on their best behavior. Neither party should ignore or act as if the other partner does not exist. One should be cordial and greet one another as if they are just meeting or like anytime before the encounter. If either party proceeds to act "brand new" or trying to "act out" they will be put on temporary probation until booty call hours arise in order to talk about the situation.

5) A cutty buddy can not be around any longer than 3 months. Any longer than that and this is considered a relationship based on physical attraction. It is very important that one stays within the three month range of having a good cutty buddy. After that they need to either come to an agreement to end the relationship or to take a period of withdrawal and continue in a following month finishing off the number of days that was left in the prior month of the execution of a cutty buddy.

If one abides by these rules they should be able to have a successful cutty buddy and be able to prosper in affairs that require no ties or no emotional strings being drawn.

OKAY, ALL JOKES OVER...Real Talk...

This might have been the stupidist most ignorant bull I have ever written. I understand we all have our moments where we gotta get our own and/or how sometimes you only link with someone sexually but honestly that is no where near a healthy relationship and only destined for drama and foolishness to occur. Value should be taken out of sexual partners and one would not have to go through all this garbage.

The avoiding of calls, texts, the awkwardness in public, etc etc. I wont talk my readers ear off but if you know what it is to have a cutty buddy please know it is like a part time job. You put in so many hours to either get them or performing or making love to them. These efforts could have been being spent elsewhere. And if you complain about never finding anything good its because your still trying to obtain a cutty buddy so expect to get only what you seek. And if you see that your only connected to someone sexually then its time to re-evaluate and probably get out of the situation. And this is by no means a post to judge anyone who engages in these acts because I am not crystal clean as well. But life is about growth...and we all have to do it at some point ya know! But if you feel like your too young to be worrying about all that and you just trying to have fun then by all means do you! It eventually has to come to a close sadly enough...Alright yall, now that I have increase my hits by a hundred or so im out!

Final Thought and quote from my homegirl: Why make love to a thousand when you can love one person a thousand ways...

My Eyes Have Been Opened...

So as I watched this video I really had to sit and wonder why one would think a porn star is a whore??!? They are probably, actually, a lot cleaner than the shones in the street. Although I would not recommend friends and family go out and be porn starts or sleep with them but you do get my drift. And my question is, is being a porn star really that bad? or is it society and the people around us who make it this way? Its crazy though how she rationalizes her concept of having "sex" as a business. It is crazy that she has kids and that she has to tell them about her past. Going to PTA meeting and all that stuff. This stuff must be hard for the children especially. But hey, her children are well taken care of, I will tell you that.

And after watching this video I would not consider her anything less than a woman who just chose to make the choice she made. She had sex with her husband for a good six years while being a porn star. So I mean was it really that bad??!??!

This second video talks about it and her explaining how the industry feels about her...



And now, I think I have a different outlook on the whole concept of a porn star. Its a business and if they do things like not get tested and all that they could jeopardize the longevity of it and bring down there name. And I guess aint nothing like being a dirty porn star. lol! Regardless of it all I think its just crazy that this all make sense. Another one of those things in life that opens your eyes ya know!

What do you think?!?! Comment?!? Speak your mind?!? Im interested in seeing if I am just crazy or I make sense...Preciate the read!

I found this clip and had to add it to the post as well!! Is this woman the new voice?!?! This was an older video or what not...check it out! Jenna Jameson on the O'Reilly show!

Unforgettable

So I was thinking about all the random songs I know and this is one of them. Then I thought about all the Unforgettable moments I have had in my life whether good or bad. Hmm...that trip down memory lane.

6th Grade
I fell in love with this girl named Anica Bell...It was my first time actually falling in love...a lot of people said it was like...but damn that I know how I felt! I hate when people try to tell me how I am feeling in my heart. She had a big forehead but she was still cute. She ended up having to break up with me because her mom did not want her having a boyfriend at such a young age. But, here is the catch! Two weeks later her mom was like "Ok, its cool for you to date!" By that time I had already roasted her and just was like what the hell?!?! And we were not on speaking terms and she ends up getting with another dude in the class named uh...what was it?!? hmm...his name was Brand-uh....nah, not brandon...dang it I forgot his name....Darren?? Maybe, that! Anywho, she gets with this kat and I am like suuppperrr devastated. But its all to the good...I think this was the year I kissed a girl on her cheek. It was my first kiss almost lmao! But, yea that girl is truly amazing you can read about her in another article in the "Captains Log" label to the right hand side. My mom passed away this year as well and a whole bunch of other random things this year. It was a very crazy and hectic year might I say.

Eighth Grade
Well, I guess I am kinda behind the game but I got my first kiss in this grade from a girl named Monique. She was a dancer and super skinny (but still pretty as hell) and we were together for a good lil bit lol. She broke up with me eventually...ish was kinda dirty she was walking on crutches and we were walking out because the bell rung to go home and she just springed it on me..."We cant be together anymore...." I wanted to kick her ass of them damn crutches lol!

12th Grade
This was the year I lost my virginity. Lost it to a spanish chick and never had sex with another spanish chick again. This is the year I got my acceptance letter to UF. This was the year I wrecked my car as well. But, grad weekend was off the friggin chain! Shouts out to the JAZZ Bus who clowned the ENTIRE trip up! Cracking on people heeeavvvyyy!!!! No one was safe. If you fell asleep you got whip creamed. Senior year was on fire I had my Norland Jacket and all that jazz...we pretty much were the end of it all in 05!! May the realest class go down in the BOOKS!

Take a trip down memory lane and see where you have gone in the realms of love from your first kiss until now...aint its crazy how far you have come lol!